It did not matter to him that a reporter or journalist
was one and the same. It's just another name for a newspaper scribe.

A journalist sounded better and more respectable to him and that's all it
counts.

As the clock approached 5pm, he fidgeted on his seat and pestered the editors
to clear his story so he could go home.

He also said in no uncertain terms that he should be paid overtime if he was
asked to stay an extra minute. The labour law, after all, provides for
that.

It did not bother him a bit that he was still learning the ropes and was  in no position to make demands. Working hard
and being rewarded later meant nothing to him.

It's "reward me first and work later'' that is more important. The  result is poor work attitude and untested and
unproven performance.

His appraisal form, of course, has been submitted to the human resources
department which used to be known as the personnel department and, at one time,
labour department.

"Please, don't call us labour or 
personnel department. There are 
no more Malaysian labourers left. There are only Bangladeshi and
Indonesian labourers,'' insisted a human resources officer.

Such scenario, which has become familiar in our country, was important enough
for the Prime Minister to bring up during the Umno general assembly last
week.

Dedicating a large part of his winding-up speech at the end of the  three-day meeting to social issues, Datuk
Seri Dr Mahathir Mohamad spoke of how Malaysians were coping socially in a
hectic economy.

"They are only concerned with style these days, it does not matter  what's in their pocket,'' he lamented.

He warned Malaysians of the dangers of being status-conscious and casting aside
practicality.

He said that during the colonial days, the British administrators did not mind
being called advisers although they wielded tremendous clout.

"They told the sultans that they were the rulers, and that they (the  British) were mere advisers but the fact was
that their advice must be accepted,'' he said.

Although Dr Mahathir's message on the dangers of having perceived power, rather
than real power, was directed at the Malay community, it struck a chord among
Malaysians.

Malaysians have not only become more brand-conscious, preferring  up-market and expensive lifestyles, but are
more status-conscious as they climb the social ladder impatiently.

Unfortunately, they have lost some traditional grace along the way.

The "Ugly Malaysian'' image has slowly reared its head, thus the obsession
with titles and positions.

According to a human resources consultant, who used to call himself an
employment officer, an impressive-sounding job designation attracted more
response when an advertisement was placed in a newspaper.

"For example, vice-president sounds better than a general manager. It does not
matter if there are 10 other vice-presidents in the company,'' he said.

No self-respecting public relations officer, for instance, wants to be caught
with that title now. They prefer to be called communications  managers.

The hotel receptionist is now the front desk officer while the telephone
operator has become a telephonist.

Go to the shopping complex, the cosmetic salesgirl is either called a  beauty consultant or make-up artist.

At a more up-market boutique, the shop assistant turns into a fashion or image
adviser.

At another level, the ordinary salesman will create a ruckus if his boss does
not call him a sales executive or marketing executive these days. It doesn't
matter if the commission remains static.

The office-boy, who was called a peon during the colonial days, has  progressed to become an administration
assistant.

Of course, there are different job functions now. He has to know some computer
skills and learn to use the photostat machine.

Down the office corridor, the secretary has just been redesignated as PA
(personal assistant) to the boss.

What about the man who makes sure the machines are running in the office? You
will just have to call him an engineer, even if he doesn't have a university
degree. No, he's no longer a mere technician.

Outside the office, the gardener who waters the grass insists that he be called
a landscape artist while the guard has become a security officer.

On the home front, you better introduce your non-working wife as a  home-maker (an American term) or domestic
manager. Of course, there are those who call their wives "home
ministers.''

Even the term servant is no longer politically correct. The much  preferred term will be a domestic helper or
maid.

My friend, the human resources consultant, however, is not apologetic about
such fancy designations, scoffing any suggestions that they create unnecessary
status-consciousness.

"It gives a person a sense of pride and confidence in his work. When that
happens, the person naturally performs better in his or her job,'' he
justified.

So, what's in a name, you may ask. A lot, certainly.

A colleague swears that he treated gravely one professional Taoist priest at a funeral
after the man handed him a card which stated his job function as “grief
eradicator.''

"You can say that is probably the most bizarre designation I have ever heard
in my life,'' he said.

A factory manager said he had become wary and cautious of people with long
designations, preferring to find out what they actually do first.

"I have met many so-called consultants in projects involving my factory. I
have also experienced many real con jobs. So-called con-sultants with their
so-called con-nections,'' he said.

Malaysians must show their revulsion at such form of status-consciousness and
one-upmanship and return to plain humbleness and politeness.

 
The kiasu attitude, like it or not, is
foreign to us even if it's notoriously pursued down south.

Last week, Deputy Prime Minister Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim
blamed the growing expensive taste of Malaysians as among the reasons for the
deficit.

Malaysians, he said, were dressing themselves and furnishing their houses and
offices with costly imports.

Last year, 14.2 per cent of the country's imports, totalling RM28  billion, comprised consumer goods.

Prime Minister Datuk Seri Dr Mahathir Mohamad has also complained that too many
Malaysians were travelling overseas.

More than 80 per cent or 16 million of the country's 20 million people have
travelled abroad.

Dr Mahathir described such visits as a worrying trend because they are a
serious drain on the country's foreign exchange.

Malaysians have been excessive. Many of them think the good times will roll
along forever.

Besides eating at fancy restaurants, shopping has become a national past-time,
with many flashing their wallets for pricey items.

Kempen Inflasi Sifar (Zero Inflation Campaign) has become a joke as Malaysians
flock to shopping malls to buy expensive clothing instead of essential
items.

My friend Jamal, a businessman, complained that his daughter would only go for
designer brands such as Donna Karan, Chanel, Moschino andLouis Vuitton for her
clothes and accessories.

"She is so brand-conscious. I really pity the man she marries if he is not
loaded. For her, the 5Cs are important cash, car, credit card, condominium and
career,'' he said.

Going to a cinema means buying a RM8 seat at a cineplex with digital sound
effects. The neighbourhood cinema just isn't good enough.

She's willing to continue wearing her colourful Swatch but she has served early
notice for her 21st birthday gift "a Longine with diamonds will be
nice.''

Of course, a vacation would even be nicer. The destination need not be far.
Exotic Bali will do.

Jamal's daughter, who is in a private college, however said she shouldn't be
the only one getting the blame. After all, she has acquired her expensive taste
from her parents.

"My dad is ready to fork out a few hundred bucks for a silk tie. It's the same
with mum. She has no qualms in parting with the same amount for a cut and
perm.''

Then, there is mother's weekly face-lift and aroma therapy at the beauty salons
with the tais tais, datins and toh puans before adjourning to a nearby hotel
for the high tea with fashion show.

"Do you know how much dad has to pay for all these to keep mum happy and to be
on par with the others? It's a bomb, you can be sure,'' added the daughter.
Jamal, on the other hand, loves Italian clothes from Giorgio Armani suits to
Bruno Magli shoes and listening to Pavarotti.

It's certainly a far cry from his student days at Universiti Kebangsaan
Malaysia when the T-shirt, sneakers, gold-rimmed round glasses and goatee were
his trademark.

As an idealistic student, the only thing on his mind was to fight for the
down-trodden and underprivileged. But these days he is more interested in
securing a new business contract and going to the golf course.

Jamal, who is in his early 40s, takes his daughter out shopping every weekend.
He said he wouldn't mind his daughter using the supplementary credit card on
clothing "so long as she is not on Ecstasy pills or any drugs.''

He is defensive of his lifestyle, arguing that he can afford it and has a right
to it.

He makes no apologies for his golf club membership, saying the club was an
excellent place to network and secure more business.

"Let's be realistic. Nothing in this world comes free. As they say,  there's no such thing as a free lunch,'' he
justified.

His expensive suits, he said, project confidence and his clients know that they
are dealing with a professional when they see his dapper dressing and
mannerism.

"How can I walk into a meeting room for a presentation, looking like a chiak
kai (lousy dresser) fella? What will the mat sallehs think of us
Malaysians?''

He has another point to make politicians who tell average Malaysians to change
their lifestyles should first do so themselves. After all, that's what
leadership by example is all about.

How many of our leaders travel in a Proton Perdana or Proton Limousine? Their
preference would be the sleek imported Mercedes-Benz or BMW.

Despite their rhetoric criticism against the declining moral standards in the
West, many still prefer to shop in London, Milan or Paris for the better-cut
double-breasted suit and matching floral tie.

Holidaying in Malaysia? No, that's out of the question because it won't be a real
rest as the constituents, supporters and businessmen just wouldn't leave them
alone.

The call to cut down on imported goods should rightly be directed at the elite
and upper-middle class Malaysians.

While the statistics show a deficit in the balance of payments, it may  not be fair to say all Malaysians have been
afflicted with the “expensive taste'' syndrome.

Many a Malaysian may take his family to the shopping mall on a Sunday to pass
the time and perhaps eat at a fast-food outlet but the average Ahmad, Ah Beng
or Muthu is unlikely to enter a designer label retail shop.

He is more likely to buy his groceries at a hypermarket or pasar malam where
the food is cheaper and fresher. He will probably buy his clothes at the Reject
Shop.

Buying expensive imported items is certainly not on his list of  priorities.

The average wage-earner works hard, watches television with his family in the
evening, talks of going to Genting Highlands or Port Dickson for the weekend,
and hopes to get a computer for his child come bonus time in December.

Still, advertisements put out by travel agencies show that it is no  longer expensive for the Malaysian family to
go overseas on a package  holiday.

A week's tour to China or Australia costs about RM1,800, which is within the
means of most Malaysians.

The challenge will be for Malaysian hoteliers to attract locals, perhaps
highlighting the environment aspect as some tour operators in Terengganu and
Sarawak have done.

And as Anwar mentioned, it's time our local manufacturers prove that their
products can be good.

By the way, how do you pronounce Louis Vuitton correctly? Zegna what?

Not grass or uppers but hard drugs.

Between 1990 and 1995, a total of 513 single mothers gave birth at welfare
institutions. The figure shows an increase of 280 per cent from 1990.

Are these findings the result of parents with demanding high-profile jobs not
spending time with their children?

Many urban parents shower their children with money, gifts, supplementary
credit cards and handphones but have no idea how their children spend their
time and with whom.

Without having to earn for what they have and leading a materialistic
lifestyle, the only attention these children get are from their peers.

However, the inability to spend time with children is but one of the causes.
The other is having to deal with the high expectations of urban living.

For example, Joseph Ong, a modern father of 46, prides himself for taking great
pains to spend quality time with his son.

Every morning he gets out of his Subang Jaya home at 7am to beat the traffic
madness to take his 13-year-old son to a nearby international school.

And every weekend, Joe faithfully takes his wife, an advertising executive, and
son to a recreation club.

His household is cared for by an Indonesian maid who cleans and cooks for the
boy when he returns from school. Last week, the boy asked his father to stop
sending him to school as he wouldn't mind going by bus.

The teenager did not want to be seen in his father's Proton Saga when many of
his schoolmates were driven in BMW or Mercedes-Benz.

"My son also asked if we could have an English-speaking Filipino maid
instead,'' Joe grumbled.

"After getting a Internet-ready computer installed, he asked for an
air-conditioner, saying he couldn't sleep. He would probably ask for a
handphone to chat with his girlfriends next.''

Joe had heard similar tales from his colleagues but never thought it would
happen to him. Being a child from the 60s and a product of the flower-power
era, he was disappointed that his child didn't possess any of his ideals.

The only consolation Joe has is that his son is bright, computer-literate,
ambitious, reads widely and would probably succeed in life.

Joe is quite sure that his son had come across pornographic materials, while
surfing the Net and merely told him to stay away.

He believes his son does not smoke but may have tried a stick or two, as Joe
did in his school days.

"Clinton himself admitted he tried smoking grass while in college although he
said he didn't inhale. Do you believe him?,'' said Joe.

It's always so easy for politicians to talk about social programmes and the
involvement of government and non-governmental organisations to fight social
ills.

Although something is being done, like the Rakan Muda project, incidents of young
people getting high or flushing babies down toilet bowls still occur.

Then, there is the outrageous call to close down all karaoke lounges and video
arcades. How these outlets are linked to worsening social problems among youths
remain debatable.

Some experts believe that karaoke singing can help build self-confidence, while
playing computer games stimulates the mind and sharpens the reflexes.

Moreover, teenagers are not allowed into karaoke lounges and even if they get
to sneak in, few could afford the charges.

The survey has, without doubt, alerted parents and policy-makers to the
seriousness of the country's social and moral development. After all, these are
important elements in the national agenda to make Vision 2020 a success.

The country's remarkable economic success has, in some ways, led to various
social problems including the degradation of moral values.

It looks like the weakening of traditional family relationships in modern
living has taken a toll on us.

It's always so easy to blame the young ones and to come up with knee-jerk
reactions and later backtrack. The fact is, all of us are equally responsible
and we haven't the guts to admit to not knowing how to deal with it
effectively.

Take the case of smoking. We banned it in many public places but enforcement is
such a sham. The Government allows tobacco companies to sponsor major sport
events, including indirectly promoting their product through TV
commercials.

We tell our children that smoking is bad, yet many including teachers and
parents smoke openly. So how do we convince our children?

What about gambling? Take your pick horse racing, 3D, 4D, lottery. If you don't
have money, you can always catch the game shows on TV.

Mention moral education, and everyone nods approvingly. But we all know that
the subject is so unimportant that sometimes the period is used for something
else.

And since the school teacher is unable to teach everything in school, and if
your child needs the notes and model answers for exams, he will have to attend
tuition class after school.

Mum and dad are too busy to listen to their problems but will pay the tuition
fees. After all, they will lose face if the child fails to get straight
A's.

It's tough to be a child these days. It should be even harder for parents and
politicians to say, without being hypocritical that they lived puritan
lifestyles during the 50s and 60s.

If you are inclined to believe the latter, then you would believe Clinton
didn't inhale when he smoked grass. You would probably believe everything
you're told.

HOURS after lawyer Wee Choo Keong  lost his Bukit Bintang parliamentary  seat in a court hearing last week, he  turned up for a dinner organised by  the hawkers at Chow Kit.

The dinner, held in conjunction with  the
Feast of the Hungry Ghost, has  always
been considered compulsory  for Chinese
politicians in the city.

Also present was his rival, Barisan 
Nasional's DrLee Chong Meng, who 
had just been declared the new MP.

Not to be out-done by Wee who took  the
opportunity to speak at the dinner,  Dr
Lee called an impromptu press  conference
and declared that he could  do better
than the DAP man.

"Don't pass judgment on me. Give  me a
chance, I think I can do better,''  said
the veterinary doctor, popularly 
referred to as Dr Ayam.

Dr Lee who had, in fact, expected  the
High Court to call for a by-election after the disqualification of Wee,  had formed a by-election steering  committee last month.

The 45-year-old leader, who carries  two
handphones and maintains three 
telephones at his service centre at Setapak, is upset to be called an "appointed MP'' and MP Mahkamah by  DAP
supporters.

His more cynical opponents said his  was
a victory without honour while  one
commentator wrote in a national  daily
that "this is a victory for the  Barisan
Nasional but one which is uncomfortably close to a technical victory and which
is not easy to be triumphant about.''

During the April general election,  Wee
polled 20,403 votes against Dr  Lee's
14,857 in a three-cornered fight. 
Independent Teng Chong Khim managed 123 votes.

Dr Lee said he had been serving the 
people over the last four years and his 
priorities were "to let the people in 
Kuala Lumpur feel the difference between a DAP and Barisan MP.

"I acknowledge the fact that (Datuk)LeeLam Thye was a good MP but  the area was neglected after Wee took  over. He antagonised City Hall instead of
working with them,'' he said.

He insisted that all his telephone 
numbers be published to make himself accessible.

The morning after the dinner, Wee  turned
up at his Pudu service centre  to hold a
press conference.

Accompanied by three DAP MPS   Dr Tan
Seng Giaw (Kepong), Tan Kok  Wai
(Cheras), andLiew Ah Kim (Seputeh)  Wee
vowed to carry on the  fight.

The centre, manned by two assistants, is located at a run-down flat  near the Pudu wet-market.

"The service centre will continue.  My
doors are open to the people and  the
other MPs will share the burden,''  said
the youthful-looking bachelor.

Wee, still visibly upset at the court 
decision, said he wanted to see how Dr 
Lee could resolve the problems of his 
constituents.

"As far as I am concerned, the people elected me. There's nothing much  we can do about the court decision.

"Perhaps, the people can express  their
unhappiness through the ballot  box the
next round.''

The court decision is certainly bitter for the DAP to swallow. Under  Section 33 of the Election Offences  Act, no appeal is allowed.

The decision to declare a losing candidate as the winner following the
disqualification of an elected MP is said 
to be without precedent in Malaysia.

No lawyer or politician could recall  a
similar case. Those interviewed said  it
was probably the first in Malaysian 
political and legal history.

For the DAP, it's another blow. The  loss
of Bukit Bintang, a seat it had  held for
the last 25 years, has reduced  its
representation in the Dewan Rakyat from nine seats to eight.

Its Bagan parliamentary seat in Penang is in the balance following the  death of P. Patto, the party's deputy  secretary-general. The Barisan has  also petitioned for a recount of the  votes in the constituency won by  Patto.

Said DAP secretary-general Lim Kit Siang: "It would appear that the Barisan
can't win at the hustings but can  win at
the courts. There's no need for  the
Barisan to work as they get two  bites of
the cherry.''

Urging Malaysians to ponder long  on the
Malaysian electoral process, he 
described the decision as "the latest 
in a series of blows.''

But as Lim licked the wounds, the  man of
the hour, Dr Lee, pledged to  turn Bukit
Bintang into a model constituency. "The DAP's brash style is  over. Malaysians want more than just  rhetoric now,'' he said.

MCA president Datuk Seri Dr Ling Liong Sik pointed out that Wee was  convicted in a court and fined  RM7,000.

"The law says anyone fined more  than
RM2,000 cannot stand for election. Its good news for the Barisan  that we add one more voice of the  people in Parliament,'' he said.

Wee, he said, was a lawyer and he  knew
he was not eligible and that was  why he
brought an insurance candidate along to the nomination centre.

But DAP Socialist Youth chief Lim Guan Eng said the High Court decision was a
mockery of the voters'  choice and a
travesty of democracy.

For the voters of Bukit Bintang, the 
fact remains that they now have to 
cope with a Member of Parliament 
they did not vote into office.

For Dr Lee, it's time to prove his  worth
and to let time shed his image  as an
appointed, rather than elected, 
MP.

ONE would have expected that  with all
the promises of more  transparency during
the recent  general election that the
Fourth Estate would at least have greater access to information. This
appears  not to be the case.

Beginning June 12, reporters will  not be
allowed to mingle with the  newly elected
wakil rakyat in the  hallowed lobby of
Parliament  House.

Their movements will be restricted to the Dewan Rakyat,
the  press room, a room next to the
the  banquet hall on the second floor
for  interviews, and, of course, the
always-crowded canteen.

Up to late Friday afternoon,  there was
no official announcement of the new ruling. It was only  Saturday morning that the Information
Ministry issued a two-page  press release
on the matter.

It is not clear whether reporters  can
still make their way to the Dewan Rakyat office to pick up copies  of the seating arrangement and any  Bills tabled for debate.

Also, the press will now have to  use the
rear entrance to the building  reserved
for tradesmen in  the tradition of
yore.

Although the Dewan Rakyat and  Dewan
Negara are the designated  areas for
serious public business  what is
witnessed, more often than  not, is the
art of sandiwara.

It is in the lobby that the exchange of information between  government and opposition MPs  takes place 
under the watchful  eyes of the
media if not within their  earshot.

The new ruling has caught almost all MPs and reporters by surprise, and initial
inquries to former  Dewan Rakyat speaker
Tan Sri Zahir Ismail and his deputy, Ong Tee 
Keat, drew a blank.

Zahir only commented on the  new ruling
after The Star went  back to him with
more details on  Friday.

Apart from the canteen, the lobby has always been the favourite  meeting place for MPs, government officials,
and the press during  the debate
sessions.

Most MPs head for the lobby or  canteen
immediately after "question time'' is over and only go back  after half or one hour's break.

In the past, MPs, pressmen and  even
ministers exchanged information openly in the corridors, the  canteen and at the lobby.

The lobby is where MPs congregate as they enter and leave Dewan  Rakyat.It is in the lobby that reporters get
access to ministers,  deputy ministers,
and government  officials who are
otherwise inaccessible.

The Prime Minister's Department and the Home Ministry, for  example, have very tight security,  and a reporter cannot just walk in  to meet a minister or an official for  informal chats.

The new ruling is also going to  make it
hard for reporters inside  the Dewan to
clarify points raised  by ministers,
deputy ministers,  parliamentary
secretaries, and  MPs during the
question-and-answer session or the debate.

Zahir said that reporters could  make
known their desire to meet  any minister
or MP by sending him  a note through the
ushers.

This is being done already. But  what
happens if the MP walks out  soon after
his speech or before the  usher is able
to pass him or her the  note?

And like other Commonwealth  parliament
practices, whenever  government or
opposition MPs  stage a walkout, it is
the lobby they  head for. Or what happens
when  the sitting is adjourned for a few  minutes to allow MPs embroiled in  a heated exchange to cool off?

If the argument spills out, as has 
happened before, into the lobby 
during the "cooling-off period,'' it 
will remain a well-kept secret because this exchange will not be
recorded in the Hansard.

TV stations will lose its spontaneity edge of recording a fight in progress if
limited to showing an interview with an MP who witnessed the  verbal or physical exchange.

Former DAP MPLeeLam Thye  and former
deputy labour minister  Datuk K.
Pathmanaban once continued their heated argument at the  lobby after they had thrown challenges to
each other inside the Dewan.

As fellow MPs rushed to the lobby, with some heckling Pathmanaban, then law
minister Datuk Syed  Hamid Albar tried to
pacifyLee  and Pathmanaban, both usually
noted for their moderation and cool.

It is such drama and excitement  that
makes Dewan Rakyat a lively  place for
Malaysian politics.

More recently, Kota Melaka MP  Lim Guan
Eng brought to the lobby  the grandmother
of the schoolgirl  involved in a
political controversy.

It is unclear whether reporters  will be
given a reprieve during the  year-end
tabling of the Budget  where they have
historically been  able to seek the
reactions of MPs,  particularly heads of
parties, on  the Budget.

No one, including Zahir, is prepared to say how this ruling came  about and why was it necessary.  The press release by the Information Ministry
does not give any reasons either.

In his six years as the MP for  Ampang
Jaya, former Dewan Rakyat deputy speaker Ong said he  had not come across a situation  where a reporter had caused trouble in the
lobby.

Asked whether it is perhaps to  prevent
the harassment of MPs,  Ong said: "Harassment for an MP  happens anywhere,
even in a washroom.''

Asked whether the wakil rakyat  should be
protected from the press,  seeing as the
public have to apply  for permission to
attend the meetings and are restricted to the gallery and the canteen, he said: "As  far as I'm concerned, the
public  and reporters should have
access  to the MPs even if a question
posed  is not palatable.''

Other MPs have speculated that  the move
is to discourage certain  lobbyists who
take the opportunity  to seek favours
from ministers at  the lobby.

Zahir said that one of the objections by certain MPs to the presence of
reporters in the lobby was  that they
were often seen sitting on  the sofas
meant for MPs.

If reporters have occupied the  sofas,
they have ventured into the  area
specifically marked "For MPs  Only''
where the sofas are hidden  behind
screens and telephones are  provided for
the use of the MPs.

They only enter that hallowed  ground if
invited by an MP.

It is a sad day when MPs can  "buttonhole'' reporters in the restricted zones, but the Executive  and other wakil rakyat can dodge  questions in turn.