MALAYSIANS have read a lot about the many bullies in our country, mostly in schools, hostels, and workplaces, as well as online.
But what is less talked about are the political bullies and their disturbing posturing.
If there is a ranking, these bullies, who shamelessly call themselves Yang Berhormat, must be the worst.
We expect elected representatives to bring people together, to mediate disputes, advise those who erred and be charitable.
We would like them to be exemplary role models to younger citizens but many fail miserably.
Instead, they become agitators, issue warnings, are confrontational and intimidating, and, most pathetically, turn into racists as they pick and choose their targets.
All bullies have some common traits: They target people they perceive as weaker, they love to dominate, and feel a need to control others to boost their own self-worth or mask insecurity.
Bullies often target individuals who are different – by race, gender, sexuality, disability, etc.
Needless to say, they have low empathy and probably suffer from some form of psychological problem.
If we dig deeper, it wouldn’t be surprising to learn they had been victims of bullying themselves or suffer from a chronic inferiority complex.
They have difficulty understanding or caring about how others feel; such emotional detachment makes it easier for them to harm others without remorse.
As political leaders, they probably have a dismal record on ideas and achievements, thus bullying gives them a temporary sense of superiority or confidence.
To conceal their poor performance, bullies often act out to impress peers or climb the social ladder.
They may thrive on the reactions they get from an audience, especially from comments sections online.
They really don’t deserve space in the media but social media news portals, hungry for eyeballs, have given these losers generous space to shout in.
These media portals do not even bother to moderate their comments section – by right, those who post nasty, racist remarks should be hauled up to face sedition charges.
Hot political issue: People putting up the Jalur Gemilang in their neighbourhood. Unfortunately, there may be Malaysians who are afraid to put up the national flag this year in case they make any mistakes and do it wrongly. — The Star
In Malaysia, playing the racial and religious cards is the fastest way to become communal heroes.
Those who do so seem to be able to attract many admirers with their aggression and impulsiveness.
They fan a racial angle with their inflammatory statements, postures, and gestures, with warnings of protests, and of course, keep the police busy with their many reports.
In the latest case, this recalcitrant politician has even given the authorities an ultimatum and a deadline to act by.
There must be no space for political bullies with their prejudices and intolerances. We shouldn’t keep silent and let such cowardly behaviour continue.
Many of us are working towards a kinder, progressive, and moderate Malaysia.
How can we recite the tenets of the Rukun Negara when political bullies blatantly disregard “achieving and fostering unity in society’’ and have no “courtesy and morality” as enshrined in the nation’s principles?
As we prepare to celebrate National Day in two weeks, there should be an air of celebration with Malaysians coming together, with reminders that we are one as Malaysians.
In my neighbourhood, I have been taken aback that my household is the only one that has hoisted the Jalur Gemilang and the Selangor flag.
The other houses are devoid of flags for reasons I cannot comprehend. Have my neighbours lost their enthusiasm – or are they afraid of putting them up wrongly?
It will be sad if we have come to a point where Malaysians – especially shopkeepers – choose not to fly the Jalur Gemilang out of fear lest they make a mistake and that mistake becomes a hot political issue.
I hope they won’t emulate my friend, analyst and columnist Prof Dr Mohd Tajuddin Mohd Rasdi, who has said he will not fly the national flag in his home and on his car this year in case of potential sabotage. He does not want it made into a political tool to incite hatred.
“We are supposed to love our flag with pride but the current reactions to those who made mistakes regarding the flag have become a political tool to attack others and incite hatred.”
Flying the Jalur Gemilang upside down is a serious matter, and getting the flag wrong, with missing stripes or points on the crescent are also offensive errors, but they are not unforgivable.
Many of these angry politicians barely squeak when it comes to more serious wrongdoings like corruption.
Why can’t these politicians just walk to these shops or places of worship and just adjust the flags correctly and explain to the people how they went wrong?
Instead, the politicians choose to be arrogant bullies in their videos to prove to their audiences that they have to teach these purported “disloyal Malaysians” a lesson.
The offenders they pick on always happen to be Chinese, and as a minority race, they become perfect targets for bullies.
Yet these self-proclaimed communal heroes quickly hide their tailcoats and do a Houdini disappearing act when their own political party members make the same error.
Can we expect the party members of these YBs to lodge police reports against their own and to insist that an apology is not sufficient?
There is also a need for the police to be seen to be fair or not react because of pressure from certain politicians. We expect our men and women in blue to be fair.
In May, two Sin Chew Daily editors found themselves handcuffed after the paper printed an incorrect illustration of the Jalur Gemilang on the cover, with the police having to call up 42 witnesses for the silly mistake.
Surely the police did not need to handcuff them, giving the perception of an overreaction.
The same month, it was reported that Terengganu PAS had to say sorry for mistakes in the national flag that was part of a logo designed for a gathering.
Around the same time, there was another blunder in an official document which contained an inaccurate depiction of the Jalur Gemilang, resulting in several senior officers of the Education Ministry’s examination board being transferred.
Last week, the same illustration gaffe was made on social media by Terengganu Umno Youth and certainly the apology by its chairman, Tengku Haphiz Tengku Putera, is sufficient.
A viral image showing the Malaysian flag being flown upside down at a district police headquarters also resurfaced last week. The police had to explain that it was a 2016 incident and not a recent one.
The point is, even the police can make a mistake and why not, after all, the police constable responsible for raising the flag is also a human being who can err.
The national flag was, in fact, flown upside down at a National Day rehearsal in 2022 because there was an error in raising it, according to news reports.
There will be such mistakes made by Malaysians, regardless of their race or political affiliations. To err is human, to forgive is divine.
I would be more concerned with Malaysians who fly a tattered Jalur Gemilang.
My friend Anas Zubedy wrote that these errors “are not always acts of disrespect – but are often human error.
“When such incidents occur, especially involving our beloved Jalur Gemilang, our response matters.
“Do we react with anger and suspicion, or do we pause, reflect, and choose to respond with understanding and wisdom?
“This is where we must return to the very spirit of the four colours of the flag.
“Let blue guide us to unity and calm. Let white remind us to be sincere and honest in our assessment. Let red give us courage to correct with dignity, not to shame. And let yellow inspire us to act with grace and respect, as our royal traditions teach.’’
To these bully politicians and those who habitually make racist remarks, my question is: Do you even make it a point to put up the Jalur Gemilang in your homes every year?
Certainly, Malaysia and Malaysians deserve better quality leaders. These bully politicians don’t deserve our votes in the next elections.
